Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Dirty Talk - Where Yes Actually Means Yes!

What is the single most sexy, complete turn-on of a word in the English language?
If you're thinking it's the word "yes", then you're right.

"Yes", as in "yes, yes, YES!" that people tend to cry out during particularly good sex. It's a natural thing to say when you're really pleased. In fact, it's almost subconscious, and most people don't even realize they're saying it. It's primal, it's imprinted on our psyches, and it's completely automatic when we're in the throes of pleasure. Not only is it a great word for psychological release of good feelings, but it makes your partner feel good for helping YOU to feel that good. It's a winning word for everyone.

Everyone knows that the word "yes" is sexy when used in the right context. That famous scene in "When Harry Met Sally" where Sally fakes an orgasm involves a lot of enthusiastic shouts of "yes!" The TV show "Friends" also used the word "yes" during a scene where Monica was getting enthused about showing the boys where a woman's erogenous zones were. People just naturally associate "yes" with orgasms, particularly in women.

It's a simple fact of sex that if you want to REALLY turn on your partner, then all you have to do is cry out the word "yes" at some point in the proceedings and you'll drive him or her wild. Your partner will feel as if he or she is really pleasuring you and will go wild with passion, taking even extra measures to keep the pleasure up to an incredible high. You'll both end up having some of the best sex ever with this simple little word.



Also remember that "yes" can be used to have a conversation with your partner during sex, and neither of you actually needs to say another word. Just asking "yes?" when going in for another sexual move and hearing your partner's enthusiastic "yes!" reply is often enough to keep you both going for quite some time. The yes question can be quite sexy when asked during intense intimate moments and you should use it as often as possible.

You've probably never thought about how powerful the word yes really is for sexual pleasure, but in your subconscious, you always knew. Just think back on all of the times you got totally turned on by someone saying that word to you during a moment of intimacy. It's a simple way to use dirty talk in bed without actually saying anything that is technically dirty. Yet, "yes" can sound as dirty as even the filthiest of words in the right context. Use it to your advantage and you'll see just how powerful it can be the next time you and your partner make love.

Source: Ezine

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