Right, so you've been with your guy for a while (perhaps you're married even) and the sex is going okay but you know deep down that your guy wants oral sex from you. And let's just say you're a bit on the anxious side. Well, have no fear, here's a few tips to get you going and remember the old adage, practice makes perfect.
First thing is to take comfort in that you don't have to do 'all' the work with your mouth. Think about it, most of the time, he gets his rocks off either with you (ie through regular intercourse) or his hand, when he's taking care of business himself. So your mouth for him is a major treat.
So, just remember you can, and definitely should, be using your hands to help bring your guy to climax when you decide to give him oral stimulation. A great idea is to ask him to show you exactly how he masturbates (you can see how he holds his penis, exactly where on the shaft and more importantly the grip itself - this is of course going to vary massively guy to guy). Then there's the stroke itself, some guys will prefer slow and soft while others want a bit more grip and aggression! So definitely you need to ask...
One thing to be aware of also is that guys absolutely love the show - they're visual at heart - so don't ruin it for him by hiding under the covers or using your hair as camouflage. Let him see you performing; this will only add to his pleasure and his ultimate climax.
Also, don't feel guilty if your guy doesn't climax to begin with by you performing oral sex on him. Some of them are anxious and embarrassed (if it's the first time you've done it for him) and naturally, some will just take much longer and need more work than others.
One way to give yourself a break though (as well as using your hands) is to come up and take a breather. Jump on top of him for a few minutes and he can admire the view of your bouncing breasts. Then when you go back to taking care of him orally, the very thought of you tasting your own juices is once again, going to add to his excitement and pleasure.
Just be aware, this is something which is meant to be pleasurable for 'both' of you. While it's obviously effort on your part, hopefully you'll be likewise pleased with his ultimate orgasm and knowing that it was 'you' who delivered and brought him to a wonderful climax by performing the oral sex on him; a very powerful and satisfying place for you to be!
Get ready to give him the trip of a lifetime with the best oral sex he's
Source: Ezine
First thing is to take comfort in that you don't have to do 'all' the work with your mouth. Think about it, most of the time, he gets his rocks off either with you (ie through regular intercourse) or his hand, when he's taking care of business himself. So your mouth for him is a major treat.
So, just remember you can, and definitely should, be using your hands to help bring your guy to climax when you decide to give him oral stimulation. A great idea is to ask him to show you exactly how he masturbates (you can see how he holds his penis, exactly where on the shaft and more importantly the grip itself - this is of course going to vary massively guy to guy). Then there's the stroke itself, some guys will prefer slow and soft while others want a bit more grip and aggression! So definitely you need to ask...
One thing to be aware of also is that guys absolutely love the show - they're visual at heart - so don't ruin it for him by hiding under the covers or using your hair as camouflage. Let him see you performing; this will only add to his pleasure and his ultimate climax.
Also, don't feel guilty if your guy doesn't climax to begin with by you performing oral sex on him. Some of them are anxious and embarrassed (if it's the first time you've done it for him) and naturally, some will just take much longer and need more work than others.
One way to give yourself a break though (as well as using your hands) is to come up and take a breather. Jump on top of him for a few minutes and he can admire the view of your bouncing breasts. Then when you go back to taking care of him orally, the very thought of you tasting your own juices is once again, going to add to his excitement and pleasure.
Just be aware, this is something which is meant to be pleasurable for 'both' of you. While it's obviously effort on your part, hopefully you'll be likewise pleased with his ultimate orgasm and knowing that it was 'you' who delivered and brought him to a wonderful climax by performing the oral sex on him; a very powerful and satisfying place for you to be!
Get ready to give him the trip of a lifetime with the best oral sex he's
Source: Ezine
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