Masturbation and Sex Today

Masturbation from my own view is the process of exciting the reproductive organ with the hands by a person. Masturbation has become a major problem to youth these days because of the exposure we get from both movies and newspapers. Youths are encouraged often times by certain people to ease their sexual urge themselves. Companies these days have taken over this propagation by producing different sex materials ranging from sex toys, to vibrations. Certain creams are also used.



Science has helped man in so many ways but the disadvantages are more than the advantages. From observations, science has about 40% advantage and 60% disadvantages. Youths who engage in this will experience many health and social problems. These include:

- Reduction in sexual urge when they get married
- Many back related problems
- Osteoporosis a medical condition in which bones in the body becomes porous there by causing fracture from time to time.

This is because somehow linked to many things including abortions. It is more from statistics in females than in males and occur later in life usually from ages 45 above

- Heart related problem: people who engage in such practices have been observed to develop serious to mild health problems which in turn lead to other health problems. High blood pressure is more common and this is often difficult to separate from diabetes.

- Mar your image; people, youth most especially who engage in illicit sex lose their respect. It is a very common cause of broken relationships because the guy has seen every thing about the lady. There is this true life story of a lady who just got married. She asked her husband where they where going to spend their honey moon and the man interrupted almost immediately that there was nothing the lady has in her body that is worth the burden because he had already seen every thing. The lady wept.

- Mistrust: those who engage in illicit sex are usually suspicious. They think that their partners are playing off sides when they see them with others. There is also this reduction in trust for partners who engage in premarital sex. Normally ladies in such situations often have very little trust than those in relationships without sex. Check it out today. It is easier to convince a lady who has sex with her partner that he/she is unfaithful than those in relationships without sex. In fact from recent observations it is very difficult to pop into a lady in a relationship without sex and try to make claims that her opposite is unfaithful. The same goes for males too.

- Marriage always fragile: those who engage in premarital sex or sex outside marriage have very fragile marriages as this is the main reason why America is quietly suffering from divorces and threats of such. The high rate of the so called hot people in the society is making marriage durations short lived as many marriages are actually aborted. When a relationship is built on sex, it has 85% likelihood that it will not stand. Majority of the marriages we have that has stood the test of time is because of foundation they laid.

A relationship is actually like one that is building a house.those who start their building on shallow foundations like sex rather than knowing each other, understanding each other and defining boundaries.



A relationship that starts with sex is indirectly telling you that both of you are cheap and not fit for it. A real relationship is one that you go into it and find it exciting. A real relationship is one that when it leads to marriage is like unwrapping a gift, a world where you go and make exploits and have every relaxed mind that the lady's relations will not follow you, neither are you afraid of pregnancy nor are you afraid of catching std's.

Save your self such inconveniences and start preparing yourself for a long lasting and exemplary relationship and marriage. Do you want be a celebrated person tomorrow and also want to be a role model to someone today?
I dare you today. Take a step today. I am also a youth like you, have all it takes to get a lady but I keep on asking myself of the profit of sex in relationships. We youths have many questions, like you want to know the capacity of your partner. Know if he/she is sweet, do it for money. But is it the definition of love. True love is patient, kind, is not self seeking, and has a direction that is not dangerous. True love is respectful, kind, trustworthy, real. What is your own definition of a relationship?

A real relationship is one that when it leads to marriage is like unwrapping a gift, a world where you go and make exploits and have every relaxed mind that the lady's relations will not follow you, neither are you afraid of pregnancy nor are you afraid of catching STD's.

Source: Ezine

Send Your Women Into a Mind Bending Orgasm - 2 Little Known Secrets to Bedroom Success!

I don't know about you but I find the spectacle and sound involved in bringing a women to orgasm extremely satisfying! I doubt I'm alone and I'm sure that most guys who are able to achieve this would not swap it for the world!

What follows is 2 incredible tips that will help you do this!



1: The Emotional Element: Women are far more emotional than men. This also applies when it comes to sex. They need to feel comfortable with you during love making. She has to know that you are the right guy for her! It's not all about the physical aspect of sex for women. As men we forget this. A balance needs to be struck!

2: Thrust Speed: Thrusting speed is super important when it comes to sex. Most of us guys tend to thrust faster and faster as we reach 'our end'. This is all-sorts of wrong! The faster you go the faster you finish! Another bad effect is that fast thrusting tends to lead to a shallow entry. Research has shown that a women likes to be 'filled' fully during sex. It's instinct. This means that we need to thrust slower and deeper in order to meet the women's needs. The downside is that this also makes the size of our penis relevant too. The larger the penis the more fulfilled the women will be.

Unfortunately this can be a bit of a problem for those of us with a smaller than average package. Not to worry though because help is available if you know where to look!

It really is possible to get a bigger penis and achieve and maintain granite hard erections that will send your sexual confidence through the roof and keep her more than satisfied.


Source: Ezine

Dating Women - What If She Does Not Kiss You on a First Date?

I recently went on a first date with a woman. Things seemed to be going pretty well but when I leaned into kiss her, she said she does not kiss on a first date. I am sure she is not the first or the last woman to say this.

What Does This Mean?

Fortunately for me, it meant nothing because shortly there after she did kiss me. However we did talk about it a little while later and her claim was that if a guy was willing to go out with her again just for a kiss then she knew he was genuinely interested. I do understand this and for me personally it was to some extent attractive because I knew she was likely not an easy girl. Also she quickly backed her claim up with the fact that most men will still have sex with a woman regardless of their interest.



While this is true, I explained to her that typically I would take a rejection of a first kiss as a bad sign. Because it does not always mean just that (no kiss on a first date), unfortunately it is not uncommon for women to lie to men. Look no farther than when women tell men "we are too good of friends to date." This comment is not entirely true, and is often instead said to avoid having to tell a guy that she is not interested.

I also told her that I am a firm believer in kissing on a first date. I figure if I am willing to go out with you on a second date then I am willing to kiss you. Additionally I have been told those crushing words from a woman "that we were too good of friends to date." I believe that commonly those words are said when a man waits to long.

In other words at one point the woman was interested in him and was willing to kiss him, however he simply waited to long. She either moved on, or was forced out of necessity to think of him just as a friend. I say out of necessity to protect her feelings.

In our society it is clear that men are required to initiate every thing, at least 98% of the time. Put yourself in her shoes, she has a crush on you however you keep dragging your feet on actually trying to kiss her. Thus, can you blame her for moving on and assuming you are just a friend after so long?

I encourage you to always kiss on a first date, especially if you are genuinely interested in her. It will avoid the possibility of you being classified as 'too good of a friend.' And it is fun to kiss girls!

Source: Ezine